Is it possible to be in love with 2 different persons at the same time?

This was what a friend *E* asked me just now… So told him that I will dedicate this post to him since he was really curious about my answer…

My answer is no… but it’s also yes… let me explain…

For me, if A is truly in love with B, A will not love C… And the only reason why A loves B and C at the same time is because A does not truly love B… A feels that B is imperfect and have flaws and A can never see beyond those flaws… and to make up for it, A falls in love with C for those things he cannot find in B… and usually B & C are the total opposites… if it is true love, A would have been contented with B and see past B’s flaws, not taking them into account…

No one is perfect… To love someone, it means loving the good and bad of them… and true love is compromise and tolerance… that’s what you see in the white hair couples who are still holding hands when they walk together, which i always envy… Ppl now are less compromising and less tolerant and have higher expectations, that is why, so many marriages break up… and mine is one of them… How I wish I have someone to grow old with me and be there when I’m old and frail and probably needs his support to even walk… and to be as loving even though both of us have no teeth when we are smiling at each other… doesn’t matter how much wrinkles both had accumulated because what you see, is the face of the lover that you had fell in love with at the very beginning…

So that’s my answer… i could go on and on as usual but that’s the gist of it…

oh yes, and to my friend, why you dreamt of a big/huge whale… pls see the following… if you want me to analyze your dream, you will have to narrate the dream in more details.. but basically, to see a whale in your dream, it represents your intuition and awareness.  You are in tuned with your sense of spirituality.  Alternatively, it indicates a relationship or business project that is too enormous to handle.  You may be feeling overwhelmed.  The dream may also be a pun on “wailing” and a desire to cry out about something.

I was right about telling you to squat in a corner and cry to relieve the stress isn’t it?  Hiaks!!! The meaning of the whale in dreams is extracted from a dream dictionary and it could be further analyzed if only you can provide details… Without it,  I can’t do much… but seriously, I’m good at analyzing dreams… cos’ I was into dream analysis since primary school… hehe… But I dun do it for free de hor… hahaha…

Guess I will have another additional blog fan after this… hiaks! oh yes, *E*, thanks for the track ‘Estella’s Theme’ from Great Expectations… he knew I probably will love it since I told him I named Estelle after the female character Estella from Great Expectations… Think I mentioned the reason why in my previous blog entries… hahaha…

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